I know I should have seen it coming. I knew it was coming. I should be more prepared. I should have read books about this. I should have talked to my mom about it more. Heck, I should have-
What’s going on now? Be nice!
Talked to other moms about it more. But I didn’t, and now I don’t feel-
Knock it off!
Be good! Stop harassing your bother! Both of you!
I am now The Referee.
Like I said I knew it was going to happen. I mean my brothers and I harassed each other so much that I’m amazed my mom didn’t go prematurely gray, and my dad does blame his hair loss on it. I just was hoping
If Evan is playing with the car, you cannot have it, Sean! You have to wait until he is done. Here take this car.
That I had a few more years, a few more months, just a few more wee-
Sean! We do not throw cars at our brothers. Time out! Evan! We don’t hit back! Time out!
I need a goddamn whistle. Hell, I need a penalty box. F-it I need a drink.
I remember how my mom would point out other families whose kids never fought. We explained to her that it was hidden, unnatural, weird. Now I realize my words are coming back to bite me in the ass.
Boys! You can play a duet on the piano. Share!
Lately I have been barking the orders to share and to be nice. And for the love of God, be good. How hard it is to share? How hard is it to play with another-
We have two guitars. You can each have one. Take turns then!
So my job description sounds a little like this: maid, chef, dishwasher, laundress, chauffer, personal shopper, doctor, nurse, reader, filer, garbage collector, decorator, librarian, camp counselor, teacher, babysitter, and now Referee.
As The Referee, my job disc-
Evan, you stay on this side. Sean, you stay on that side. Now everyone has room to play. Evan! Don’t mess with Sean.
Description is to make sure that all injuries are due to accidents and not malice, to keep life as fair between siblings as humanly possible, and to make sure all rules with their penalties are enforced properly.
I need a time out.